Today I found a chance to blog so I did.
Well to day we had an assembly about controling emotions.There was a test of how well we can manage our emotions and I happen to be one of those who can manage anger and thinks that anger is a common emotion.Well I was wondering why isn't it a normal emotion as it is why anger is there for.It is not weird.
Everything exist with a purpose and anger's purpose is let one self out completely.
Well I currently have a friend who is having friendship problem.What happen is that she lied to her best friend and the best friend found out about it.It may not be a very serious lie but anyway I talked to both parties.
But i want to talk about the one who did the wrong.She called me and spilled her hearts out,crying as if someone was dead.She told me that she appologised but the other party is still ignoring.She believed that she have done enough and can't accept that the other girl is ignoring her in some way.
The point is,my friend,sometimes or should I say,many times,when one lies,we don't see or judge how serious it is.Instead,it is the one who is lied to because she is the one taking it.It may not seem serious,in any way you describe it,but in her perspective it is serious.To add on unwillingly,you are her best friend.You are her trusted buddy.
And here is what I want to tell you,which I hope that you will understanding that I am not scolding you,but to tell you that you have to think in the other's perspective once in a while.Think like you are the one taking in what you did,and understand her.After that give her time to think if she want to forgive you.I know yu tried your best,but again,it is up to her to decide.Or another way is to give her a reason to forgive you.Not only that you appologise,but show her that you will change.
I want to say that friendship is not about destiny.It is about whether you want it to be sustained or broken.
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